So, that part of our life is over.
After spending eight and a half months at Hogar de Esperanza, we left Friday night. Who knows when or if we’ll get the chance to return. It certainly was a sad day. The people there have been incredible. The employees are all so encouraging and have such positive attitudes. They go out of their way constantly to make everyone feel special. Every month they select an employee or volunteer and everyone chips in a couple cookies or a really heartfelt card of appreciation. Not to mention the our birthdays and anniversary where they serenaded us, made us pies and once again showered us with heartfelt words of encouragement. On the water filter, which we’d been working on for the last couple months and just wrapped up this week, they painted “Puri-Foster” as a surprise for me.
The volunteers were also incredible — so funny and sarcastic. Over the course of the greater part of a year living with them constantly, we all picked up on each other’s idiosyncrasies and just joked about them over and over. Everyone was such a good sport about it.
And the kids. They really are the best and the worst part of it all. They drove us crazy daily, but we can’t help but have a deep well of love in our hearts for each of them. It’s making me sad just writing this to think of leaving them. They all need so much love and direction and we won’t be able to give it to them anymore.
Friday as they performed songs and little choreographed dances and threw confetti in our faces from point-blank range, little Brigitte sat in my lap. She loves to sit in my lap, I think just because she wants to feel the strength and security of a Daddy. Shy, sweet, spunky Cristina sat in front of me, turning around periodically to see me. On days when we don’t have our normal tutoring session she tells her house mother how much she misses me. I know I miss her now. Heidi sat next to us, mocking us as we cried. So that kept us in check.
The orphanage is a wonderful place of love and opportunity, but it’s no place to spend an entire childhood. We just wish and pray that all of the children will go to live with families that love and support them, whether it’s their own parents or adoptive parents.
Oh, it’s tough. the feelings are still really fresh.
Even though a big part of us is still in Trujillo, we are now traveling and will have the opportunity to see some of the most incredible sights in the world, so that’s exciting, even if we’re still sad.
Now we’re in Cusco, the capital of the Incan empire. We thought we were starting the four day hike to Machu Picchu on Tuesday, but it’s been bumped back to Thursday, which is fine. It will allow us to have a couple more days to adjust to the 11,000 foot altitude.
Well, here’s the last installment of pictures from Trujillo.
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Heidi posing.
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Camilla
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Samir
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“Edwin, I see you.”
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Yamelit
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Fernando laughing after beaning someone in the head. He is such a classic boy, just loves to wrestle. His favorite thing to do with me is punch me in the gut then try to get free from my grasp.
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Esthefany carrying around a rat they found in the sand. For 20 minutes, they chased eachother around with the rat. Lori got out of there with superhero speed.
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Enrique chasing with the rat.
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Isabel and Heidi didn’t like the rat too much.
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Tracy and Simon in one of their nightly battle royales.
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Cristina and gato.
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Brigitte, Cristina and cat.
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Us with Isabel, Paul, Lariza and of course Tracy on our next-to-last day.
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Bonita Isabel.
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Siblings Lariza, Roxana and Dante.
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Heidi
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I had a pretty rocking sandal tan at one point.
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A fisherman repairs his nets before heading out for the day.
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A vendor arranges his daily stack of sweets.
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A girl runs down the beach at Huanchaco chased by her dog named Doky.
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Marguerita, one of our surf shop friends and a descendant of one of the kings of Chan Chan.
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A neighborhood kid does flips on the dune behind the orphanage.
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Proud of the new Puri-Foster filter are Elias, Marcos and Alex. We made it for under $200. It definitely makes the well water taste better and should eliminate all bacteria, and eventually save them a lot of money on filtered water.